The most awaited tango spicy State of Affairs everyone comes across atleast once

Suddenly we are expected to be highly social, a good networker, a good communicator, a good cook, a machine which is like manufactured to keep others happy, a recorder who can hold everyone’s orders and execute without delay.

And of course an ATM machine who can generate good revenue for the would be family.
well I am not writing anything in frustration, rather its an illustration of our society’s trends.
The above functionalities are a brief description of what is believed to be inculcated in a To be Bride.
The girl who prefers to sleep till late morning, runs to office in heels, eats anything that suits her mood not a typical diet chart, she laughs loud on calls with friends, loves music anytime, and put whatever she finds herself pretty in; is all of a sudden expected to drap herself in pre defined dresses to impress relatives, is supposed to cook finger licking dishes with numerous varieties in the Menu.
Moreover she should not spend more time on phone calls, should cut down her sleeping hours, sun may be late not You,haven’t you studied “early to rise” :p, and music, omg!! don’t even think to try that.
What an Irony!! I can’t stop laughing.
Why we create so much fuss? why the better half is always expected to clear all the litmus tests.
Why can’t she live without pretending?
Marriage makes you learn adaptations, after all Change is the only thing constant in Life.
Well!! Good things may have bad packaging, lets discuss the later part.
Lots of shopping. After all you are going to steal the show! The center of attraction for every visitor, your dress color to nail paints becomes the point of discussion.
Marriage after all the most engrossing event of once life.
But in our society, the bride is expected to be a full fledged matured person with extraordinary talents and her welcome’s warmth somehow is proportionate to the Revenue she brought along.
But whatever, its a complicated matter, highly engrossing. May take hours to discuss and still will end up without any conclusion.
So I as an Infant should not burn my fingers writing so such a highly inflammable stuff.
Just read it to enjoy and help me if you understand anything out of it :p
Nehaaa….
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One thought on “The most awaited tango spicy State of Affairs everyone comes across atleast once

  1. You know why wife is called better half is most cases. Straight Forward -> She’s better than him. Here’s a good read for you. Hope you’ll like it.

    Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother
    Dear mom,
    Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming.
    But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.
    I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
    I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family.
    I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day.
    I am expected to be presentable every time.
    I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
    I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
    I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
    I am expected to be active and around the family.
    I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.
    And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.
    I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you.
    And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. Love you.
    It’s an excellent article for all daughters
    Do not forget to Share with ladies… respect all ladies and girls beside u as they make the world beautiful for u to live in.
    Daughters are like music in the house..
    When she speaks,
    Speaks without a break..
    & everyone says,
    “chup bhi kar jao”
    When she is silent,
    mother says,
    “tabiyat theek hai na”
    Father says,
    “aaj ghar mein khamoshi kyun hai”
    Bhai says,
    “naraaz ho kya”
    and when she is married, all says,
    “aisa lagta hai is ghar ki raunak hi chali gai”
    She is the real non stop music..
    Dedicated to emotional, cute, pretty, sweet & sincere girls
    That’s Me..
    That’s You..
    That’s a Girl..
    =Proud
    =To
    =Be
    =A
    =Girl
    kyu k sari ronaq unhi se to hai..!!😉
    Share with ur mother sister wife daughter brothers son dad & last but not the least all your friends male n female friends. Let all know what are girls.
    Mumma’s princess
    Daddy’s Angel
    Husband’s darling.
    Wow girls ❤

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