Suddenly we are expected to be highly social, a good networker, a good communicator, a good cook, a machine which is like manufactured to keep others happy, a recorder who can hold everyone’s orders and execute without delay.
And of course an ATM machine who can generate good revenue for the would be family.
well I am not writing anything in frustration, rather its an illustration of our society’s trends.
The above functionalities are a brief description of what is believed to be inculcated in a To be Bride.
The girl who prefers to sleep till late morning, runs to office in heels, eats anything that suits her mood not a typical diet chart, she laughs loud on calls with friends, loves music anytime, and put whatever she finds herself pretty in; is all of a sudden expected to drap herself in pre defined dresses to impress relatives, is supposed to cook finger licking dishes with numerous varieties in the Menu.
Moreover she should not spend more time on phone calls, should cut down her sleeping hours, sun may be late not You,haven’t you studied “early to rise” :p, and music, omg!! don’t even think to try that.
What an Irony!! I can’t stop laughing.
Why we create so much fuss? why the better half is always expected to clear all the litmus tests.
Why can’t she live without pretending?
Marriage makes you learn adaptations, after all Change is the only thing constant in Life.
Well!! Good things may have bad packaging, lets discuss the later part.
Lots of shopping. After all you are going to steal the show! The center of attraction for every visitor, your dress color to nail paints becomes the point of discussion.
Marriage after all the most engrossing event of once life.
But in our society, the bride is expected to be a full fledged matured person with extraordinary talents and her welcome’s warmth somehow is proportionate to the Revenue she brought along.
But whatever, its a complicated matter, highly engrossing. May take hours to discuss and still will end up without any conclusion.
So I as an Infant should not burn my fingers writing so such a highly inflammable stuff.
Just read it to enjoy and help me if you understand anything out of it :p